More and more im hearing stories of people being abused sexually and taken advantage of its really sickening. Its so many people out in the world who are hurting and struggeling mentally with sexual perverion and have no outlet or help. Many of the truthfully are ashamed of thier dirty lil fantasies and pray that no one finds out. Some are under the spirit of torment and really want it all to end but dont know where to start. Whats even more sad is how many people right in our own families and churches are stuggeling with sexual issues that you may know nothing about. We are conditioned to talk about women who go from man to man or men in the church who sleep with other men. Aids and Hiv on the rise claiming the lives of our church members but we are still not saying nothing. We are not doing anything. Did You know the adverage child born from 1985 , 1990 to this present day will be introduced to sex before the age of 5? Thats from the age of five up into thier twenties they will  have to deal with both the presure and the temptation of knowing or handeling sexual activity. To every parent its time to wake up before your 12 year old comes home with an std that they cant get rid of. Sexual preditors are on the loose and guess what>? your children are all over the internet on thier cell phones and using social website for dating or common websites like facebook and myspace where they meet their preditors… its time to wake up. Educate your children as well as protect them that they will not be taken advantage of!

Michael McCain-

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Ive been away from the blogging sene for a while now. My appologies. So many of you emailed me and encouraged me to get back on my grind. Thats why im here! Truthfully i desire more support from my readers this time. More commetns and feed back would be in order… Why is that so important to me? It lets me know if im reaching you! I dont just want to ramble and blog about things that have no relavance.  I want everything that i produce to have power and impact!!! Thats what i was placed here for. God gave me this gift to write and i plan to use it wisely. I want to talk more about issues that are hard for people to handel. do you have something you want me to blog or talk about???? hit me in the comment section below and share your thoughts! This is the space thats open to you to make your voice heard. There maybe others that need the deliverance thats about to take place by you asking questions… So lets have it… What do you want Michael Mccain to say? What do you want to hear about??? The Floor is yours….

Building relationships is fun.  One gets to know each other and spends quality time together.  As long as the relationship is based on mutual respect and understanding, there is no element of friction between the individuals involved in the dating relationship. They remain compatible and in harmony with each other. The problem that could arise is when the situation goes out of control, and the partner forces sex on the person, who is not keen on having it. Date-rape is a problem that many are facing and some voice their anger, whereas others just by-pass it.

One should maintain some distance in the initial meetings and during courtship.  One should make it clear that one would like to decide when one wants sex

Too much alcohol should not be consumed. One should not be drunk so that sex can be forced upon. One should be able to fight back. Also one should be aware of what is going so that one can be sure whether it is date rape or sex per se
Going in groups is good. It is better to date along with others so that one can avoid date –rape
Make sure you have a girl companion or someone whom you can trust with you while being dropped back. Many rapes occur then
Be aware of your rights.  For a woman above 18 years of age, forcible penetration is forced sex and can be termed as date rape. If she is unconscious then also sex can be considered to be forced as her consent has not be sought
Carry a self-defense item so that one can protect oneself from aggression

We are now embarking on a journey of understanding the sound and voice of the Lord. We must take into consideration not just some, but all things in the aspect to embracing the Kingdom. Not only embracing the Kingdom but responding to the call of the Kingdom, for the Kingdom has pronounced and has continously been proclaiming the soon coming of the Lord Jesus Christ. We must tune our ears into the realm of the Spirit by way of understanding the signs and discern the climate change. In this will teach us how to pray; the change in climate brings a understanding of strategy for what is to come. Hear the voice of the Lord.

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Define Your dysfunction

what is your problem? Are you a busy body? always in other peoples buisness? always in another mans affairs and concerns. Let me help you… if you constantly find yourself talking about other peoples affairs and issues then your a busybody… if you are constantly calling, texting, and converstating from person to person and uttering all your mind and everything that you know of events and common associates/friends … then your a busy body…

You are a Jackass…

Yes, i said it, you are a jackass!

The bible clrealy states in proverbs that a fool utters all his mind. Stop talking so much, stop telling your buisness as well as others that you may know around you… your a fool to do such… then wonder how your buisness gets in the streets. Its interesting to me to even know people who are in our surroundings that happen to be around when an even occurs then everyone all over the place knows that it happened… you are a Jackass gossiper. You have no better sense but to run your mouth… you mouth is that little member thats causing a whole lot of confusion…

Shut up!

Allow God to be God and every man a Liar. God never called you to be his parallegal! Stay on your assignment. Its sad when people run there mouth so much that they dont even remeber doing it, what they said, when it was said… and etc. the next time your in the presence of a jackass gossipper let them talk. do more listening then sharing and talking, i promise you the life that you may spare will be your own.

Dysfuction is defined as: a consequence of a social practice or behavior pattern that undermines the stability of a social system.

As belivers its a dangerous thing when we undermine the things of God and the people of God running our mouths and being busy with things that dont concern you. The old folks would say i have 6 months to mind my buisness and 6 months to leaves yours alone.  That means for the whole year i have no time to be concerned with another mans affairs.

“And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you” I thessolonians 4:11

Be Quite.

Do what the Lord has already commanded you to do. As a matter of sheer fact… since the gossipper is so busy in other mens affairs do you even know what the lord has called you to and ordered for you to do??? Its time to mind your buisness and start working on your purpose.

If your know a jackass gossipper that needs to read this blog by all means please forward it…  ( if your reading this blog consider how often your in another mans affairs)

“Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things.” American Standard Bible Phil 4:8

“Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.” Philippians 4:8

If the thing your talking about has no “rhema in it” no power, no excellence, no purity, no good report… then stop talking bout it. cast that busybody spirit back to hell…. get in the plan of god..  Dont undermine the your christan walk over gossip briddle your tounge and season it with the grace of God.

More Scriptures on Busy bodies:

Busy-bodies

• Fools are.
  Proverbs 20:3 It is an honour for a man to cease from strife: but every fool will be meddling.

   

• The idle are.
  2 Thessalonians 3:11 For we hear that there are some which walk among you disorderly, working not at all, but are busybodies.
  1 Timothy 5:13 And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not.

   

• Are mischievous tale-bearers.
  1 Timothy 5:13 And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not.

   

• Bring mischief upon themselves.
  2 Kings 14:10 Thou hast indeed smitten Edom, and thine heart hath lifted thee up: glory of this, and tarry at home: for why shouldest thou meddle to thy hurt, that thou shouldest fall, even thou, and Judah with thee?
  Proverbs 26:17 He that passeth by, and meddleth with strife belonging not to him, is like one that taketh a dog by the ears.

   

• Christians must not be.
  1 Peter 4:15 But let none of you suffer as a murderer, or as a thief, or as an evildoer, or as a busybody in other men’s matters.

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Ready to be committed?

Are you ready to go beyond the dates and enjoy the rest of your life with him?

Dr. Mike offers some tips-

Commit or not to Commit

How to deal with commitment phobic men?
Don’t play games: Playing games with your man won’t make him fall for you genuinely. Be upfront about your feelings and emotions.

Give space: Don’t you feel trapped in a claustrophobic relationship? So does your man. Every relationship grows well when there is space.

Be independent: Do not cling on to your man. Be an independent girl. Make him feel that you don’t “need” him to survive. But you “want” him to make your life beautiful.

Be a fun partner: Don’t sulk or be depressed. Enjoy every moment of your life. When your man sees what a fun partner you are he will take the big step.

Make him comfortable: Men (for that matter, even women) are extremely apprehensive about marriage. Make him comfortable with the whole idea of a long term commitment.

Don’t pretend: Contrary to the popular belief, men hate pretense. Don’t “act” to impress him. Be confident about the real you and flaunt it. Your man will know your actual personality.

Express yourself: If you want marriage, tell him so. There’s nothing wrong in expressing your wants. At least, you will have an idea about where your relationship is heading.

Return the favour: Just as you want to be pampered, your man too desires to be spoilt silly. In relationship follow “Do unto others, what you want others do unto you.” Return the favours with the same enthusiasm.

Be sure: Before making him agree for the big “M”, be absolutely sure whether that’s what you want.

Don’t dominate: Relationship is about equality. Don’t try to usurp him, at the same time don’t let him walk all over you. Be fair and equal.

Be gentle: Consider your man’s views, opinions and needs too. That will make him more open to you.

follow these tips,

if hes already put a ring on it and still has not gone to the next step its time to open up another line of communication and expression that will not make him feel uncomfortable. No one should know your man better than you. Dont depend on his friends or family… “YOU” make that effort to reach him!

Dr Mike

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Dont get Raped This Summer-

My mom and several family members would always make the statement
“You Cant Rape The Willing”
So i submitt to you weather male or female ( women rape men as well)
that you cannot place your self in unhealthy situations and thing that things will not present itself.
I also want to say that we have to practice being gentalmen… and practices being young ladies and in some cases women. Your conversation and your body language all play apart in what takes place. so lets go further with this…

One should maintain some distance in the initial meetings and during courtship.  One should make it clear that one would like to decide when one wants sex

Too much alcohol should not be consumed. One should not be drunk so that sex can be forced upon. One should be able to fight back. Also one should be aware of what is going so that one can be sure whether it is date rape or sex per se
Going in groups is good. It is better to date along with others so that one can avoid date –rape
Make sure you have a girl companion or someone whom you can trust with you while being dropped back. Many rapes occur then
Be aware of your rights.  For a woman above 18 years of age, forcible penetration is forced sex and can be termed as date rape. If she is unconscious then also sex can be considered to be forced as her consent has not be sought
Carry a self-defense item so that one can protect oneself from aggression

Signs, Symptoms, and Treatment of Manic Depression

We all have our ups and downs, our “off” days and our “on” days, but if you’re suffering from bipolar disorder, these peaks and valleys are more severe. The symptoms of bipolar disorder can hurt your job and school performance, damage your relationships, and disrupt your daily life. And although bipolar disorder is treatable, many people don’t recognize the warning signs and get the help they need. Since bipolar disorder tends to worsen without treatment, it’s important to learn what the symptoms look like. Recognizing the problem is the first step to getting it under control.

In This Article:

• What is bipolar disorder?
• Signs and symptoms
• Treatment
• Self-Help
• Bipolar disorder and suicide
• Causes and triggers
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What is bipolar disorder?

Bipolar disorder (also known as manic depression) causes serious shifts in mood, energy, thinking, and behavior–from the highs of mania on one extreme, to the lows of depression on the other. More than just a fleeting good or bad mood, the cycles of bipolar disorder last for days, weeks, or months. And unlike ordinary mood swings, the mood changes of bipolar disorder are so intense that they interfere with your ability to function.

During a manic episode, a person might impulsively quit a job, charge up huge amounts on credit cards, or feel rested after sleeping two hours. During a depressive episode, the same person might be too tired to get out of bed and full of self-loathing and hopelessness over being unemployed and in debt.

The causes of bipolar disorder aren’t completely understood, but it often runs in families. The first manic or depressive episode of bipolar disorder usually occurs in the teenage years or early adulthood. The symptoms can be subtle and confusing, so many people with bipolar disorder are overlooked or misdiagnosed–resulting in unnecessary suffering. But with proper treatment and support, you can lead a rich and fulfilling life.

Signs and symptoms of bipolar disorder

Bipolar disorder can look very different in different people. The symptoms vary widely in their pattern, severity, and frequency. Some people are more prone to either mania or depression, while others alternate equally between the two types of episodes. Some have frequent mood disruptions, while others experience only a few over a lifetime.

There are four types of mood episodes in bipolar disorder:mania, hypomania, depression, and mixed episodes. Each type of bipolar disorder mood episode has a unique set of symptoms.

Signs and symptoms of mania

In the manic phase of bipolar disorder, feelings of heightened energy, creativity, and euphoria are common. People experiencing a manic episode often talk a mile a minute, sleep very little, and are hyperactive. They may also feel like they’re all-powerful, invincible, or destined for greatness.

But while mania feels good at first, it has a tendency to spiral out of control. People often behave recklessly during a manic episode: gambling away savings, engaging in inappropriate sexual activity, or making foolish business investments, for example. They may also become angry, irritable, and aggressive–picking fights, lashing out when others don’t go along with their plans, and blaming anyone who criticizes their behavior. Some people even become delusional or start hearing voices.

Common signs and symptoms of mania include:

• Feeling unusually “high” and optimistic OR extremely irritable
• Unrealistic, grandiose beliefs about one’s abilities or powers
• Sleeping very little, but feeling extremely energetic
• Talking so rapidly that others can’t keep up
• Racing thoughts; jumping quickly from one idea to the next
• Highly distractible, unable to concentrate
• Impaired judgment and impulsiveness
• Acting recklessly without thinking about the consequences
• Delusions and hallucinations (in severe cases)

Signs and symptoms of bipolar depression

In the past, bipolar depression was lumped in with regular depression. But a growing body of research suggests that there are significant differences between the two, especially when it comes to recommended treatments. Most people with bipolar depression are not helped by antidepressants. In fact, there is a risk that antidepressants can make bipolar disorder worse–triggering mania or hypomania, causing rapid cycling between mood states, or interfering with other mood stabilizing drugs.

Despite many similarities, certain symptoms are more common in bipolar depression than in regular depression. For example, bipolar depression is more likely to involve irritability, guilt, unpredictable mood swings, and feelings of restlessness. People with bipolar depression also tend to move and speak slowly, sleep a lot, and gain weight. In addition, they are more likely to develop psychotic depression–a condition in which they’ve lost contact with reality–and to experience major disability in work and social functioning.

Common symptoms of bipolar depression include:

Signs and symptoms of a mixed episode

A mixed episode of bipolar disorder features symptoms of both mania or hypomania and depression. Common signs of a mixed episode include depression combined with agitation, irritability, anxiety, insomnia, distractibility, and racing thoughts. This combination of high energy and low mood makes for a particularly high risk of suicide.

Treatment for bipolar disorder

If you spot the symptoms of bipolar depression in yourself or someone else, don’t wait to get help. Ignoring the problem won’t make it go away; in fact, it will almost certainly get worse. Living with untreated bipolar disorder can lead to problems in everything from your career to your relationships to your health. Diagnosing the problem as early as possible and getting into treatment can help prevent these complications. 

If you’re reluctant to seek treatment because you like the way you feel when you’re manic, remember that the energy and euphoria come with a price. Mania and hypomania often turn destructive, hurting you and the people around you.

Basics of bipolar disorder treatment

• Bipolar disorder requires long-term treatment. Since bipolar disorder is a chronic, relapsing illness, it’s important to continue treatment even when you’re feeling better. Most people with bipolar disorder need medication to prevent new episodes and stay symptom-free.
• There is more to treatment than medication. Medication alone is usually not enough to fully control the symptoms of bipolar disorder. The most effective treatment strategy for bipolar disorder involves a combination of medication, therapy, lifestyle changes, and social support.
• It’s best to work with an experienced psychiatrist. Bipolar disorder is a complex condition. Diagnosis can be tricky and treatment is often difficult. For safety reasons, medication should be closely monitored. A psychiatrist who is skilled in bipolar disorder treatment can help you navigate these twists and turns.

Self-help for bipolar disorder

While dealing with bipolar disorder isn’t always easy, it doesn’t have to run your life. But in order to successfully manage bipolar disorder, you have to make smart choices. Your lifestyle and daily habits have a significant impact on your moods. Read on for ways to help yourself:

• Get educated. Learn as much as you can about bipolar disorder. The more you know, the better you’ll be at assisting your own recovery.
• Keep stress in check. Avoid high-stress situations, maintain a healthy work-life balance, and try relaxation techniques such as meditation, yoga, or deep breathing.
• Seek support. It’s important to have people you can turn to for help and encouragement. Try joining a support group or talking to a trusted friend.
• Make healthy choices. Healthy sleeping, eating, and exercising habits can help stabilize your moods. Keeping a regular sleep schedule is particularly important.
• Monitor your moods. Keep track of your symptoms and watch for signs that your moods are swinging out of control so you can stop the problem before it starts.

Bipolar disorder and suicide

The depressive phase of bipolar disorder is often very severe, and suicide is a major risk factor. In fact, people suffering from bipolar disorder are more likely to attempt suicide than those suffering from regular depression. Furthermore, their suicide attempts tend to be more lethal.

The risk of suicide is even higher in people with bipolar disorder who have frequent depressive episodes, mixed episodes, a history of alcohol or drug abuse, a family history of suicide, or an early onset of the disease.

The warning signs of suicide include:

Bipolar disorder causes and triggers

Bipolar disorder has no single cause. It appears that certain people are genetically predisposed to bipolar disorder. Yet not everyone with an inherited vulnerability develops the illness, indicating that genes are not the only cause. Some brain imaging studies show physical changes in the brains of people with bipolar disorder. Other research points to neurotransmitter imbalances, abnormal thyroid function, circadian rhythm disturbances, and high levels of the stress hormone cortisol. 

External environmental and psychological factors are also believed to be involved in the development of bipolar disorder. These external factors are called triggers. Triggers can set off new episodes of mania or depression or make existing symptoms worse. However, many bipolar disorder episodes occur without an obvious trigger.

• Stress – Stressful life events can trigger bipolar disorder in someone with a genetic vulnerability. These events tend to involve drastic or sudden changes–either good or bad–such as getting married, going away to college, losing a loved one, getting fired, or moving.
• Substance Abuse – While substance abuse doesn’t cause bipolar disorder, it can bring on an episode and worsen the course of the disease. Drugs such as cocaine, ecstasy, and amphetamines can trigger mania, while alcohol and tranquilizers can trigger depression.
• Medication – Certain medications, most notably antidepressant drugs, can trigger mania. Other drugs that can cause mania include over-the-counter cold medicine, appetite suppressants, caffeine, corticosteroids, and thyroid medication.
• Seasonal Changes – Episodes of mania and depression often follow a seasonal pattern. Manic episodes are more common during the summer, and depressive episodes more common during the fall, winter, and spring.
• Sleep Deprivation – Loss of sleep—even as little as skipping a few hours of rest—can trigger an episode of mania.

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